Monday, August 31, 2009

Julian's Favorite Things

Monday, August 31, 2009

I’ve decided to list the following things I love to have done to me during sex. No real reason, other than the fact that I rarely seem to experience any of them on a regular basis at work. When I’m on the clock, it’s all about the client. However, in my personal life, I feel more comfortable asking for certain things. Read on…

· Chest play. This can include kissing/licking the pectoral area, as well as rubbing it with one’s hands. Nipples are suitable for licking and/or sucking, though anything involving teeth should be done delicately.

· Nails. Whether it’s scratching them along my chest, back or abdomen, they’ve always been arousing. However, there is a fine line between pleasure and pain. Generally, digging so deep that blood is drawn is not a good idea.

· Oral Sex. A given, I know, but I do have a few preferences. Slow and steady wins the race, at least for me. And don’t think you must stay permanently latched on during the process. A quick break to pull off and switch to a hand job is fine. Secondly, don’t ignore the testicles. Licking, sucking or simply massaging them are all lovely techniques.

· Sitting on my face. Something about having a woman’s genitals up-close-and-personal is a lot of fun. When in this position, I normally like to use my lips and tongue to try and give her some pleasure as well. Still, make sure there’s room for air. Suffocation via oral sex might be a bit complicated to explain to the authorities.

· Spanking, etc. I’m a fan of light, playful BDSM. Instruments can include paddles, belts or riding crops. Having my ass tanned by a woman while naked and blindfolded is deeply arousing for reasons I do not know. Is it the loss of control? Perhaps. As with any BDSM activity, a safe word is necessary.

So there it is. I realize that the above activities will paint me as a sexual deviant among certain populations, but I’m not too concerned about that. After all, this is a blog about a male escort (AKA gigolo; AKA prostitute; aka whore). On a more trivial note, writing about these acts has gotten me a bit horny. Now, if you’ll excuse me…

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