Saturday, July 18, 2009

What does a Gigolo Want?

Saturday, July 18, 2009
Much of the attention these days seems focused on what women look for in a man. That's understandable, given the fact that women seem to have a harder time finding (suitable) men to date. Men, on the other hand, will usually be satisfied with having sex peppered with the occasional movie.

So, what do men want? More specifically, what do I look for in a mate?

That's a difficult question to answer. Physical attributes are fairly typical. Like many men, I like breasts. Not too big, but a full C-cup will definitely catch my eye. And asses? Again, big not too big. That's a vague declaration, I know, but guys will know what I'm talking about.

Hair and eye color are far less important, as is race/ethnicity. In fact, race / ethnicity is hardly important at all -- I'll gladly date anyone from any ethnic group.

When it comes to personality, I tend to get a bit more specific. More than anything, I don't like a doormat of a woman. Dare I say I even prefer a more "dominant" personality, or at least one who is comfortable wearing the pants from time to time. If she wants to pick the restaurant we're eating at, fine. Does she have an idea for a weekend vacation? I'm cool with that.

Education seems to be a common denominator as well, given that the more educated a woman is, the more confident she is in her behavior. I've also noticed that women from certain fields -- law, PR, advertising, etc. -- tend to appeal to me. I even dated a woman involved with law enforcement (pre-escorting, of course) who had a slew of interesting stories to tell.

Above all, I need a woman who's going to keep me interested. And then, there's sex.

Sorry to say, I can't deal with prudes. Girls who have hang-ups about oral sex or doggie-style sex are not my deal. Given the nature of my job, liberal sexual politics are a must-have. By that I mean the use of sex toys, light BDSM, even the use of softcore (and preferably European) pornography can't be a problem.

Given the description I've just written, the only woman who seems to embody them all is Rebecca. But seeing how that ship has sailed, it's time to find someone else. The girl I've been seeing lately is promising, but I still fear how she'll react if and when I tell her about my job.

Only time will tell. But for now, I need to make sure the other women in my life are cared for, too. By that I mean my clients, whom I'm required to fawn over whether I find them attractive or not.
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